Make a list of the administrative tasks that need to be handled - like the name change, joint insurance policies, etc. and give yourself a flexible target date to complete them. This way you won't feel rushed and overwhelmed,and you will most likely complete everything ahead of schedule.

Decide early on which household chores you want to do, and ask your husband which he would like to do. It may seem silly, but an argument will be avoided by this

If you're not happy, he's a failure A man rates himself by how happy his woman is. He will treat you like a queen if you prove him the you are happy under his shelter.

You must speak his language to be heard Communication is the best tool to go close to someone. Communicate well with your husband and avoid misunderstandings.

Friendship can be a peaceful island, separate and apart, in a world of turmoil and strife. Reflect upon tranquility of the many future years you can share with a true friend, and beware of becoming battling enemies under same roof.

Bind not yourselves in secretness that causes suspicion and doubt. Trust and reveal yourselves to each other, even as budding rose opens to reveal its fragrance and beauty. This is most important point in married life, openness, be frank and say what ever you want, don't look like under carpet deal, as this will built suspicion and tension

Discuss all the credit accounts held jointly, such as mortgage, home equity loans and credit cards. your decision to divorce and reopen the accounts in only one spouse's name should be noified to your creditors. In this way individual credit accounts will be established.

The Equal Credit Opportunity Act states that a creditor cannot close a joint account because of a change in your martial status. However, a creditor can close the account at the request of either spouse.