Did you know that living together is considered to be more stressful than being married? Many believe that couples who live together before marriage have a rockier journey in marriage. The answer to question as to whether or not cohabitation is a good choice depends on where you live, if you have premarital education, and if you marry first and only person you live with. If above three aspects of cohabitation fit your profile, you will not increase your chances of being divorced.

Why Some Researchers Believe Couples Who Live Together Are at a Greater Risk for Divorce

• They may be more accepting of divorce.
• They may be less committed to marriage.
• They may have married for wrong reason, e.g., pressure from family or having a child together.
• They may think they know all there is to know about marriage already.
• They may have too high expectations of married life and get disillusioned early in their marriage.
• They often have poor conflict resolution skills.
• They may not be able to handle financial decisions together.

Reasons Couples Decide to Live Together

• Economic or practical reasons.
• Concerns about a long-term commitment.
• Fear of divorce.
• Convenience.
• To give the relationship a trial run before marriage.
• Lack of faith in marriage as an institution.
• Escape from family home.
• Compromise with partner who doesn't want to be married.
• Companionship.

Cohabitation Concerns
More than 50% of couples who live together before marriage end up apart either through just moving out or divorce later on.According to the U.S. Census Bureau, unmarried couples account for some 5.5 million households in U.S. Evidence also shows that couples who live together may not discuss important or troublesome issues in their relationship.

CWA (Concerned Women for America), in their article Cohabitation up 85 Percent state, "Americans are turning to cohabitation as security against divorce. But in doing so, they are placing their cherished relationships in even greater jeopardy. Cohabitation is not the answer to rising divorce rate. Understanding, communication, selflessness, and commitment to marriage vow is."

Cohabiting Problems

• Parental disapproval
• Lack of common purpose
• Gender issues
• Division of labor disagreements
• Money problems