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Help Your Child Stay Organized
5 Ways to Help Your Child Stay Organized
Instilling a little order in your child's study habits will allow a lot more time for actual studying! Put these five tips
into practice and help build good habits now.
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Set up a Designated Study Space — Make sure there's an area of your house just for homework, with all the supplies she
needs in bins and boxes. Provide plenty of space for books and set up baskets for papers so your child can find old
homework to review for tests.
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Color Code Subjects — Buy school supplies for each subject in a different color, so your child can see at a glance which
folder, notebook, and binder has to do with which subject.
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Create a Cubby Hole at Home — Place a crate or sturdy box near your front door so your child can keep his backpack and
other school items in one spot. Teach him to put anything he needs for the next day in that place as well. That way, he'll
know where his stuff is when he's looking for it.
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Use a Calendar — Give your child a date book or other portable calendar that she can bring with her to school. Teach her
to write down assignments, tests, play dates, lessons, and other plans regularly. Also have her write down her classmates'
phone numbers and e-mail addresses so she can find and contact them easily.
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Set a Good Example — If you keep things neat and organized in your own life, your child is more likely to follow suit. If
he has trouble making "to-do" lists, sit down and make one alongside him. Seeing you turn off the TV at a regular time to
pay bills or even just to read will show him the importance of setting aside time to do things and sticking to it.
5 Ways to Procrastinator-Proof Your Child
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Step out of the line of fire. Leave the issuing of orders and consequences, advice and directives, to the school. Tempting
as it is, if you rush to his rescue either by doing his homework or writing an excuse to the teacher about why he couldn't,
your procrastinator learns that his tactics will ultimately be rewarded. Rescue too often, and you also send the message
that you really don't believe he can do it himself.
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Acknowledge even tentative steps in the right direction. If you're forever noticing what she isn't doing, instead of what
she is doing, you'll chip away at her confidence. Praise such as "Good first draft!" or "That's a fine outline" can go a
long way toward motivating a child to complete assignments. Reward her for trying by putting a star on the calendar for
each day she finishes her work on time. When she collects a weeks' worth, celebrate with a movie or video date.
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Help him set goals he can meet. Simply beginning is the hardest part for a procrastinator, so show him how to structure his
time. A book report in three weeks? Pencil each step into the plan book or calendar: Research in the library; make note
cards; write an outline, etc. If he's staring at a blank page, suggest he write down any thoughts that come to his mind,
even if they seem off-base. The process of writing down ideas can generate new ones.
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Involve your child in her homework schedule. Hammer out a study routine you can both live with — taking into account
after-school activities and favorite TV programs as well as her temperament (some kids prefer to finish in one sitting;
others need a break every 15 minutes or so). Give her choices — but not too many. If she wants to watch a show before
beginning work, that's okay. But then she has to sit down and begin — even if that means missing a "very important" program
later.
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Turn homework time into family time. Bring home some paperwork, organize your recipe file, do the Sunday crossword puzzle,
or pay bills while your child studies — doing it together can be a motivator.
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